2020 The Year Of Blessings

“Once you make a decision the universe conspires to make it happen.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Before I dive into things I want to say a Happy new year! A new year full of adventures, blessings, and prosperity 🙂

As seen as its 2020 and the start of a new year, it’s that time again where many are and have set new goals whether it’s to lose weight, travel or find love. We all have something we would like to do or do better this year. When we set new goal it is quite easy to shout it from the roof top and tell everyone the new improved us but, after a while we forget the excitement and enthusiasm we had at the beginning of the year and either lose the enthusiasm or forget to put any action behind the goal.

I unintentionally found ways in which I kept my goals and desire at the forefront of my mind without even being aware I was doing it. My goals were coming to me much quicker because I wasn’t having a fixed attachment to the goal because we all know when you’re too focused on the lack of the goal, it takes a slower process to come to fruition. It’s honestly a simple message we always forget because we focus too much on the how or when. It’s like ordering food to your home, when you order your food and are busy distracting yourself, the food comes much quicker vs when you sit there and track every 5 minutes to get an update.

The key to affirming fluidly is to find new and fun ways to manifest without holding too much attachment to it.

Listed below I have created a few ways in which you effortlessly manifest your goals:

  • Writing your goals as a password- This was one of the ways I unintentionally created what I currently have in my life and I did not know I was doing it. I needed to change my password as I locked myself out of my laptop and felt called to write what I desired and left it. Little did I know every time I was writing in my password I was unconsciously manifesting my goal.
  • Setting your alarm clock as your goals– Alarm clocks are always startling because it tells us we need to wake up. However, having your alarm sound as your goals every morning will gently wake you up and put you in the high vibration to set the tone of your day. It’s a light reminder that it’s a new day to work towards your goals. You can also use this for affirmations.
  • Set reminders on your phone- Similar to setting your alarm sound as the voice of your goals, having your reminders set throughout the day helps you stay present in what you want.
  • Post-it notes- I have mentioned this in a previous post but it’s a great reminder because it’s uncomplicated. Placing post-it notes around your home in the places you mainly go will remind you when your mind is elsewhere what you truly desire and how to work towards them.


What’s fun way do you manifest your goals?

Happy 2020! X

Law Of Attraction- Wouldn’t It Be Nice Technique

wouldn't it be nice

The Law of attraction is a beautiful concept once you unlock the door; the door is present to everyone , we just have to be consciously open to see it.  If you haven’t read my post on How to manifest or don’t know what the law of attraction/manifestation is, then I recommend you read the above post first. In a previous post I also talk about another law of attraction- The 17 second technique.  However, if you’re a spiritual junkie or want to try a new technique…well I’ve got something for you.

Often we get consumed with the attachment of what we desire and tend to focus on the lack of it rather than the feeling of gratitude. I know I have been there a few times, I would struggle with letting go of that desire and that would either delay my goal or simply not come in fruition. So I tired a new technique that I found through research and it honestly changed my life.

The ‘’Wouldn’t it be nice if’’ technique has helped me to manifest desires without me focusing on what I want and having the freedom of letting what ever happens, happens.

How you may ask?

This technique is very simple but simply yet effective. All you need is a open mindset that the universe has your best interest and you are already off to a great start.

By simply saying ‘’Wouldn’t it be nice if [insert desire]’’ , you are already creating the foundation of the desire you want. This approach allows you to have a light hearted conversation without forming attachment to the thought. It’s like having a conversation with your friend, you say something and then move on to the next thing without any form of lack or attachment.

Still to this day I use this technique when I get fixated on a goal and remind myself to have a light fresh approach.

Here are some examples;

  • Wouldn’t it be nice if I got a call back from the [insert company name] job I applied to.
  • Wouldn’t it be nice if the top I wanted was on discount
  • Wouldn’t it be nice if I got a text/call from a particular person

let go of attachment

Be Bold, Be Strong, Be You X